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Just Made A Rape Joke? Think It’s Edgy? Well Here’s A Truth Bomb.
Comedian Jamie Kilstein thinks we shouldn’t joke about violence against women. That view got him notably shunned from the comedy community; other famous comedians weighed in, called him names, it was a whole thing. As a result, he lost a TV deal, promotional gigs, and friends — all because he said rape jokes are bad.

Rape culture: totally a real thing.

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Just Made A Rape Joke? Think It’s Edgy? Well Here’s A Truth Bomb.

Comedian Jamie Kilstein thinks we shouldn’t joke about violence against women. That view got him notably shunned from the comedy community; other famous comedians weighed in, called him names, it was a whole thing. As a result, he lost a TV deal, promotional gigs, and friends — all because he said rape jokes are bad.

Rape culture: totally a real thing.

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A List of “Men’s Rights” Issues That Feminism Is Already Working On

Feminists do not want you to lose custody of your children. The assumption that women are naturally better caregivers is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not like commercials in which bumbling dads mess up the laundry and competent wives have to bustle in and fix it. The assumption that women are naturally better housekeepers is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to have to make alimony payments. Alimony is set up to combat the fact that women have been historically expected to prioritize domestic duties over professional goals, thus minimizing their earning potential if their “traditional” marriages end. The assumption that wives should make babies instead of money is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want anyone to get raped in prison. Permissiveness and jokes about prison rape are part of rape culture, which is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want anyone to be falsely accused of rape. False rape accusations discredit rape victims, which reinforces rape culture, which is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be lonely and we do not hate “nice guys.” The idea that certain people are inherently more valuable than other people because of superficial physical attributes is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to have to pay for dinner. We want the opportunity to achieve financial success on par with men in any field we choose (and are qualified for), and the fact that we currently don’t is part of patriarchy. The idea that men should coddle and provide for women, and/or purchase their affections in romantic contexts, is condescending and damaging and part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be maimed or killed in industrial accidents, or toil in coal mines while we do cushy secretarial work and various yarn-themed activities. The fact that women have long been shut out of dangerous industrial jobs (by men, by the way) is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to commit suicide. Any pressures and expectations that lower the quality of life of any gender are part of patriarchy. The fact that depression is characterized as an effeminate weakness, making men less likely to seek treatment, is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be viewed with suspicion when you take your child to the park (men frequently insist that this is a serious issue, so I will take them at their word). The assumption that men are insatiable sexual animals, combined with the idea that it’s unnatural for men to care for children, is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be drafted and then die in a war while we stay home and iron stuff. The idea that women are too weak to fight or too delicate to function in a military setting is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want women to escape prosecution on legitimate domestic violence charges, nor do we want men to be ridiculed for being raped or abused. The idea that women are naturally gentle and compliant and that victimhood is inherently feminine is part of patriarchy.

Feminists hate patriarchy. We do not hate you.

If you really care about those issues as passionately as you say you do, you should be thanking feminists, because feminism is a social movement actively dedicated to dismantling every single one of them. The fact that you blame feminists—your allies—for problems against which they have been struggling for decades suggests that supporting men isn’t nearly as important to you as resenting women. We care about your problems a lot. Could you try caring about ours?

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Excerpt from If I Admit That Hating Men is a Thing, Will You Stop Turning it Into a Self-fulfilling Prophecy?, by Lindy West (via angerr)

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So there’s this law in the US called EMTALA. The Emergency Medical Treatment and Active Labor Act. Basically, it says that if someone comes to an ER requesting treatment, they must be seen by a doctor, and if they are found to be having a medical emergency or in active labor, they must receive…

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"You may not agree with a woman, but to criticize her appearance — as opposed to her ideas or actions — isn’t doing anyone any favors, least of all you. Insulting a woman’s looks when they have nothing to do with the issue at hand implies a lack of comprehension on your part, an inability to engage in high-level thinking. You may think she’s ugly, but everyone else thinks you’re an idiot."

— Hillary Clinton

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Certain people ask me sometimes, “Don’t you feel it’s demeaning to wear a girl’s costume to conventions?” And I answer, “If the clothes aren’t demeaning to them, how can they be demeaning to me?”
This is what a crossplaying geek feminist looks like!

This is what a Bitch-in-training role model (for feminist men) looks like

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Certain people ask me sometimes, “Don’t you feel it’s demeaning to wear a girl’s costume to conventions?” And I answer, “If the clothes aren’t demeaning to them, how can they be demeaning to me?”

This is what a crossplaying geek feminist looks like!

This is what a Bitch-in-training role model (for feminist men) looks like

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Being Female on OkCupid, or, a study in “REALLY? SERIOUSLY??”

For your enjoyment, and presented without comment, the latest ten messages in my OKStupid inbox:

1. a [my username], are you a thundercat? or just a unique werepanther that can transform between both? [empty profile]

2. I just wonder what happened to romance and love, now and days everyone just wants sex or trade pics, confidence is low in real life but on here hormones are still high. I want a person with a old soul, and a big heart. I am a traditional guy whom still believes in chivalry, and the definition of a true gentleman. [54% match 54% friend 37% enemy]

3. Hello, my name is [redacted]. I work as a nurse, love animals and helping people. [60% match 61% friend 23% enemy]

4. Hi there. First off let me introduce myself, I am [redacted]. I am a divorced Dad of [redacted] who works hard and tries to be the best Father I can be to my kids. I am trying this online dating to see what’s out there. I’m not looking to jump into a relationship but not looking for sex either. I want someone who can turn into my best friend and if we get romantic wonderful but we take the time to really learn each other before jumping into anything. [deleted profile]

5. Hey„„I just read through your profile and you seem like a great lady. I am a 45 year old single dad. Perhaps we could talk over a cup of coffee or glass of Wine. I love the beach. I’m not here for games or BS. BTW, you have a great smile. Feel free to text me. [phone number redacted]„„[name redacted] [deleted profile]

6. I am a black hung man and would love to get to know you! [76% match 76% friend 2% enemy]

7. Hi there cutie [deleted profile]

8. Hello ^^ how are u doing this soon to be tgif [59% match 67% friend 24% enemy]

9. Hey cutie.. [deleted profile]

10. hi, wanna be friend? [81% match 8% friend 0% enemy]

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"[…] By making me a bitch, you have given me my freedom, the freedom to say and do things I couldn’t do if I was “a nice girl” with some sort of stupid, goody-two-shoes image to keep up. Things that require courage. Things that require balls. Things that need to be done. By making me a bitch, you have freed me from the trite, sexist, bourgeois prison of “likeability.” Any idiot can be liked. It takes talent to scare the crap out of people."

— Alison Arngrim